How Teenagers Should Balance Between Their Relationships And Career?
Normally during teenage, that is the period between thirteen years of age to nineteen years of age, various hormonal changes occur in an individual’s life. Many emotional, physical, social, and cognitive developmental changes take place during this period in which a student faces extreme pressure regarding their career. At the same time, they want to hang out with their friends or other age-mates that sometimes create an imbalance between their personal and professional life. During this point, career is one of the most sensitive topics in their lives due to which they sometimes want to spend quality time with their loved ones as well. They are not able to figure out what to do at a particular moment in life? Which career option to go with? Is it right if they develop personal relations with someone or not? Will they able to sustain the relationship with such emotional stress?
An individual should be very much clear about the career option he/she is going to opt for according to their interests and passion. It should give you a sense of security in your subconscious mind so that you feel emotionally stable. Then coming to your personal life, developing a relationship with someone, or falling in love with him/her is your own decision that no one can force you to do so. But to have a perfect relationship so that you do not come under stress, your partner should be cooperative enough so that the relationship with him/her becomes your reason for living and attaining success in your life. Many people say that maintaining a balance between the two is highly difficult or follow the myths those are already existing in society, but it depends upon you that how you channelize your time so that you spend time with your partner while working very hard for your future also.
From your busy schedule to prepare for exams to completing assignments, you want someone with whom you can share all your worries so that you feel comfortable after that, by forgetting all your stress. Always the word relationship doesn’t need to indicate your relation with your boyfriend/girlfriend, but it can be with anyone to whom you love and admire in your life.
Now, a question arises, how to create a balance between the studies and personal life?
So here are some of the things that you should keep in mind:
- Firstly you should create a proper schedule so you get to know about the timings for classes, self-studies, doing assignments, and completing other work. Follow the to-do list strictly and plan your other activities according to that only.
- Prioritize your things according to the time. If in your schedule it is mentioned that the particular time is for only studies, give proper time to it, after that talk to your loved ones. They would be like a shoulder to you in all your thick and thins, supporting you emotionally and mentally.
- Never develop a habit of procrastinating things as it would only create an unnecessary burden on you in the future and, you struggle to complete your pending work. So always complete the given tasks on time.
- While spending time with your loved ones, don’t fight over stupid things. Always share the issues and be a shoulder to each other, rather than acting as a burden to each other. It creates a balance between your mood and relieves stress.
Conclusion
Though sustaining a relationship along with career pressure appears to be very difficult but it turns out to be a beautiful bond that you cherish for your entire life as you and your partner grow together while cooperating. Also, it removes the bridge in your relationship as you share everything in a very straightforward manner. It is always said, “When you go in search of honey, you must accept to be stung by bees”. The same is the case with creating a balance between teenage relationships and career. Initially, you will feel that it is not under your control, you become very unstable emotionally. Slowly and gradually you will feel that things go very smoothly on their own. So bring all the myths out of your mind and always follow your mind and heart.
:BY- MUSKAAN SEHDEV
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