Mohanraj

Need guidance on my daughter who is doing her computer enginèering but now her behaviour is very negative


by Mohanraj
2 answers
| Share :

2 answers

RE: Need guidance on my daughter who is doing her computer enginèering but now her behaviour is very negative

Meghna Mukherjee
Meghna Mukherjee
Verified Career Expert
Counselor at Adaptive Minds
  • Mumbai

Hello Mohanraj, 

I.am a bit worried by your question here. 

I would strongly recommend you to visit a Clinical or Counseling psychologists with your daughter. Unless and until she is ready for counseling nothing you do will work.

But before you are able to visit a counselor, some tips that could be helpful:

1. When you say negative, what does it mean. Is she giving up.studies and talking of failure, giving up social outings, or suicidal.

2. If suicidal, please do not leave her alone at any cost. Try talking to her at all times and assure her that you are with her at all times. Do not force her to study. 

3. Make the environment friendly. Take a break.

4. Ask her what she wishes to do if not computer science. Ask her the reason she wishes to quit. Dont try to reason out with her at the moment. Slowly after few days when she seems relaxed communicate but no arguments or debate and no forcing her to agree with your view point

5. If needed take a break.

6. Approach the college principal or teacher for help.

7. If you know someone who works as a software professional ir systems manager, or someone related to her field, and he or she can expose her to the work profile by taking her to the office would give her a hands on rxperience or atleast if they can talk out to her. But mind you,  should not be a family member.

Try and ease her pressure by diverting her mind as much as possible 

Do write back.

Hope she has a speedy recovery 

Wish you good luck...

RE: Need guidance on my daughter who is doing her computer enginèering but now her behaviour is very negative

Priyanka Kaul
Priyanka Kaul
Verified Career Expert
Psychologist/Career Counselor in Careers360
  • New Delhi

Hi,

Possibly reasons can be she is not much interested to computer engg but maybe under some pressure she is pursuing the course.  Or else there must be some peer pressure she must be going through and not discussing the same.

You can find out if she is interested in some other course and maybe once she completes her computer engg she can pursue her courses she is interested in.

Also she is a teenager and at this age there are many thoughts (influenced by ext sources) going on in her mind. Sit and talk to her.

Hope this helps.

In order to post replies to the question: "Need guidance on my daughter who is doing her computer enginèering but now her behaviour is very negative"

Post Reply

Latest Answers

Hi sneha, can u recommend some professional related to career counselling

  I am extremely eye-catching, chatty, and brilliant lady with significantly eye-catching characteristics, you will never find out in other alwar .. READ MORE

Difference between sponsored and non sponsored candidate for admission in NPTI?

What is sponsored candidate meaning?   Sponsored Candidate means the candidate having minimum of two years of full time work experience counted a .. READ MORE

Minimum age limit to attend 10th class exam?

what is the minimum age for 10th class ?   As per the guidlines of central board of secondary education (CBSE) the minimum age to appear in the 1 .. READ MORE

How to become a doctor after completing BSc Nursing degree?

What are medical courses after BSc nursing Nursing One of the most well-respected vocations on the planet is that of a nurse. They play an essential .. READ MORE
Most Popular

Professional courses after 12th for Bio-Maths students?

Professional courses after 12th for Bio Maths students Best Courses after 12th bio maths : Biomaths Bio Maths are the finest combo because they open u .. READ MORE

What is the scope in doing economics hons and also the career jobs related to it?

Economics Honours Scope Economics (Hons.) has recently received a lot of traction among recruiters. Students with a bachelor's degree have several job .. READ MORE

How to become a doctor after completing BSc Nursing degree?

What are medical courses after BSc nursing Nursing One of the most well-respected vocations on the planet is that of a nurse. They play an essential .. READ MORE

What is the procedure to join Indian Navy after class 12th

How To JOIN INDIAN NAVY AFTER 12TH Candidates who want jobs in the Indian Navy must have passed the Matriculation Examination. It means these vacanci .. READ MORE
Caching Date: 12/4/2021 3:51:53 PM