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I want to make them proud but I am not that intelligent to be a doctor as I wanted to become a dentist. I am an average student. Plz help
You will be definitely able to make your parents proud of one day as you are concerned son/daughter for which you are asking this query. Look dear, first of all feel that its possible , sometimes it may not feel so and make you frustrated at your self and others. Simply put in the best and 100% effort and take their advises and guidance with out feeling disturbed. Display a sense of responsibility in taking up your own charge , for ex: getting up yourself , getting ready for studies..
Now, coming to your career I would first like to ask why you feel you are an average person ? Is it because of the marks you secure ? or is it due to less smart behavior and taunts by your near and dear? if it is the case, simply forget it, go for an intelligent test and see how intellectual you are and take this feeling out of your heart and mind. Many of my students have felt the same way , but with guidance and following tips and tricks , they have done wonderful progress. So you will also do. First, talk to your parent's and go for an career assessment and personality assessment based on the results, decide on a career matching your talents, skills, interests, personality attributes and aptitudes.
Then you will feel a perfect balance and interest in studying the chosen career option, ultimately resulting in good score and good opportunities. Once , you are happily settled in a career perfectly made for you , you will see how proud your parent's will be of you. So. please don't get carried away by doctors, dentist, and others rather go for the one in which you will prosper.
Hope you get a right career direction and have a prosperous future. Wish you a great career ahead and your parents pride.
Click on the following link and see a motivational speech by an average student:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThOb3Gb1_E
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Hello dear student....
Coming to your question of making your parents proud and how to become topper in your class though you are not that intelligent, again you want to go to medical line and persue your career as a dentist.
I am really glad to see that you are so much concerned about your parents happiness and thinking for them so much but it is not the only way to make them proud so many other options are there to do so, peruse your career in the line where your talent lies and you will enjoy doing that too, so it will be more fruit full, like if you are good in other things like singing, dancing, painting, acting there also so many opportunities lies and now a days you can see so many talent hunt shows to help you peruse that.
But if you still is interested in the medical line then first thing is remember hard work is needed if you are not that good in studies, so only hard work and full commitment to your line and subject is the only way you can do to achieve your line.
start the preparation in the ten plus two stage itself as it will be more help full join some coaching center who are helping side side in medical as well as ten plus two studies, commonly found these days every where, so not a problem in that, by this you can achieve your goal for sure. again keep in mind to do entrance form fill up as it will after twelve exams in march and April only so do not forget to apply, both online and offline process is there to apply.
Hope you got the answer for your query and now you are clear how to peruse your career in medical line.Again I would say please access where your talent lies and focus on that too, your strength weakness is important to purse a career in anything.
Hello My Dear,
Dear Aspirant, I really feel proud on you that you have asked a practical and natural question. Let me tell you one thing that you are so sincere about this that you want your parents to feel proud on you. Never ever measure success with the parameter of scoring top marks in school and colleges. Let me say one thing that you may be an average student but you are not at all an average person.
Your parents will definitely feel proud on you, if you are good in behavior, your body language is very positive, you are an honest person, you are very hard working and you listen to the advice of your parents and friends.
To be a topper in academics does not mean that a person is great or will be great in his life. Lets us take some examples of famous personalities, who were average or below average students in their career. Amithabh Bacchhan (was he a topper??), Sachin Tendulkar (was he??), there are many more examples. Can you name me any film star or tennis star (except countable) who were toppers in their student life. No they were not, still they make their parents very proud and are loved by millions of people. I does not want to say that only film stars, tennis stars, singers or musicians can make their parents proud.
You just try to look in your self, see what you want to do, you may be having some hobby, try to sharpen that hobby and it may become your profession. All the great scientists were not toppers, it is the idea which matters. You must be flooding with great ideas, try to give them a shape, something positive will definitely make yourself and your parents proud.
Do you know that a simple or average person with pleasing personalities, with a decent behavior and good manners is liked by all compared to an arrogant topper. So why do you compare yourself with a topper student. Scoring good marks is not a big thing, the big thing is that are you a good person, who is loved by majority of people. So don't think in that way, change the way of your thinking and be a good human being. This is the crux of the life.
With all my best wishes.
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