In our Indian society it is never okay to involve into any kind of emotional or social distraction if you are still a student and if you haven’t achieved anything yet. Being a student in India means that you definitely have to abide by many rules and regulations that not only your family and teachers place but also what the society places on you. This has both its advantages and disadvantages.
If we compare this with the western countries, they do not face the same number of strict rules while being a student, finding time to spend time and hang out with friends and deciding to involve with the opposite gender romantically is a very common thing to them. But in India, your personality and your character is decided by the fact that whether you spend a lot of time with your friends or not. The notion of romantic relationships for students can be very controversial.
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In Indian society student romance is considered to be a big distraction for a student, it is considered to be the one factor which pushes the student off his track and therefore is highly unhealthy. Strict and unhealthy environments and miscommunication are very common in Indian families; therefore the child and the parents are very awkward when it comes to sharing of feelings.
The society has still not accepted the fact that it is normal for the child to get attracted to the opposite gender while growing up. Therefore its very common for the students to hide any kind of romantic indulgements from their parents and lie to them. But this can be even more disadvantageous because the constant fear of revelation can make the child more distant and difficult to actually deal with the romantic aspect properly. This kind of miscommunication can often create further distractions from the child as they invest more time and develop a tendency to defy their parents.
Indian parents should understand that the only way to teach their child to concentrate on their career is to accept what’s natural and allow them their social indulgements like friendships and romance. This is the healthiest way to develop a bond of trust between your child and you so that he can share his problems with you allowing you to guide him maintain a balance between his spheres. In many cases it has been seen that secret romantic relationships have either ended up in breaking up once parents find out resulting to increase in the tendency of defiance and other tendencies which harmfully impacts the personality and the idea of romance of the student.
Also secret relationships which lack guidance and transparency filled with fear and insecurity has sometimes led to much more serious concerns like development of abusive behavior and teen pregnancy. Therefore the only solution to help the students move forward is to accept their feelings as natural and provide them a closure where they can stay emotionally protected with someone to confide in. Friendship on the other hand is very important for wholesome development of a child. In many cases children without a social life are prone to suffering from mental problems sometimes growing serious.
Friends are the first people to whom a child can open up emotionally after their parents which is necessary for a good health and smooth life. Although it seems to be very light but the phase of teenage can be very complicated, it’s the time you create your personality and your nature which defines who you are, its also the time when you are open to many kinds of new founded feelings and mental burdens and complications. Therefore its very important to handle that stage in order to grow up into a strong individual who is strong both physically and mentally.
